For Women and Girls

Valerie travels the nation empowering women to relational fulfillment. Incorporating humor and life experience, she decodes the man language that often frustrates and overwhelms women. Valerie has  age-specific presentations to target the needs of your group:

Why He Left You for Her is designed for single and married women. A modified version caters to young ladies from teenagers to college-age

I Love Myself Too Much to Give You My Goody Box focuses on girls twelve to seventeen years old

Valerie has great stories that will empower, inspire and encourage your audience to finding fulfilling relationships. Valerie has spoken / appeared on numerous shows including The Mother Love Show. The Forbidden Secrets of The Goody Box has received rave reviews in local and national outlets.

 To book Val, call 888.802.1802 or submit your request here.

Why He Left You for Her

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The Forbidden Secrets of the Goody Box

All eyes are on you as you make slow orchestrated steps toward the altar. The splendor of your tailored gown is magnified by the beaded embellishments. Your hair and makeup; perfect. The eloquently arrayed bouquet of fresh-cut flowers bombards your senses. For a brief moment, you stop, close your eyes, inhale the fragrance. The pianist seems to stroke the keys in sync with your racing heart. You open your eyes and gaze down the aisle to see the groom poised, ready to meet his bride. A full smile washes across your face, steadies your breathing. As you walk toward him, acknowledging each friend and family member with a glance, slight grin and head nod, you whisper a prayer to the Lord.

“Father, I thank You for this beautiful day. Everything is coming together as planned; even the weather is perfect. I ask Your grace upon this union that it may flourish. I have one question: When will it be my turn as bride? I’m happy for my girl, but… I’m tired of being alone, crying myself to sleep. Smiling at every man I meet, hoping; praying that he’s the one. I love my nieces and nephews, but I’m ready to be a mother. The official has shot the gun to start the foot race and I’m stuck in the blocks watching my girlfriends run ahead with husbands in tow. Why am I still single? What is it about me that keeps me on this side of matrimony?”

Limousines, receiving lines and head tables! Phooey!

Had enough of being a hostess, bridesmaid or maid of honor?

Let me be bold, blunt and to-the-point on something most men would never dare tell a woman: you have more power to have men eating out of the palm of your hand than you realize. However, when it boils down to it either you know The Forbidden SECRETS of the Goody Box or you don't. And most women don't have a clue as to how to utilize the power they already posses. If that describes you, then don't worry because it's not your fault! You've just never been taught the TRUTH about what men really CRAVE in a woman and it requires VERY LITTLE EFFORT on your part!

Now I have some good news and some bad news. First, the bad news: What I'm going to unveil in my new Why He Left You for Her Workshop will make a lot of the wrong kind of men VERY upset! The good news: They are going to be upset because I will peel back the curtain and reveal to YOU all of the SECRETS you were never given about men.

You will discover:

• Three things that lead you to make terrible relationship decisions
• Every man’s private marriage checklist
• A simple two-letter word that makes him want to pop the question
• Why he just won’t propose
• Little signs that tell you he’s the one
• Advice from men you’d be crazy not to take

 What attendees say about the Why He Left You for Her…

I Found Out What Men Really Want In Women and It Blew Me Away

I thought I had a pretty good idea about what men wanted in a woman they considered for marriage. However, in this workshop I found out what men really want and it blew me away. This information will be my secret weapon for my next relationship. Karen Jackson

Now I Know How to Avoid the Wrong Types of Male Hunters

The workshop provided tons of great relationship information especially communication. Now I know how to avoid the wrong types of male hunters. This info is priceless! Sharon Tuttle

I Learned Things About Men I Never Knew

Everything in this workshop was real and relevant! The examples and exercises were fun and practical. I learned things about men I never knew. I know this information is going to help me get what I want out of my relationship. Erika Preston

Hilarious and Extremely Informative at the Same Time!

I thought this workshop was going to be just another boring lecture, but I couldn’t have been more wrong. Valerie was hilarious and extremely informative at the same time! If you’re single, you have to attend this workshop! Danielle Wright

Why He Left You for Her

This version caters to young ladies from high school to college with the following objectives:

Empowered with life skills by

• Deciphering the ramifications of sexting, cyber bullying and online postings
• Unveiling the tactics used to manipulate young ladies into sex including alcohol and Rohypnol
• Revealing the four types of male hunters and secrets to attract the good ones
• Promoting “heart-gasm” over orgasm
• Encouraging self love, self respect and self esteem

I Love Myself Too Much to Give You My Goody Box

 This presentation / workshop caters to girls twelve to seventeen years old with similar objectives as Why He Left You for Her. The content emphasizes positive body image and a sisterhood of mutual respect.